Who's to blame

In our Bounce Back program we were learning how to blame fairly. It means for an example if we lost a basketball game by 2 points, who do you blame? In the story that we read, Josh blamed it on himself because he missed the important 3 pointer and Hunter blamed it on the 2 people that came late. whose fault is it? 

If you were in a fight and you didn't do anything but you blamed it on yourself how would you feel? I'll feel sad because I would regret it. If you see someone sad and the person blamed it on his enemy but it was actually your friend and you blamed it on your enemy because you know how your friends gonna feel. Do you think it's fair? I'll say no because that's what you call a fake friend, you have to trust them for you to think that person's fake or real. Don't blame everything on other people because sometimes it's just bad luck. I learned that sometimes it's just bad luck and if it was you just take the blame and learn from it.